Well, its been more than two years since I posted my latest blog – Dating Online. Actually I just noticed that I hadn’t postet it then (in sept. 2011) so I just published it now, March 2014. I guess one of the reasons I haven’t had time to write is because I found a wonderful man on this last time around the date-site circus. I won’t bore you with the whole preamble, but the clincher was, that I was brave enough – and clear-headed enough, to say that I liked his kiss. I was also much better at assessing my own feelings and thoughts. I was rational. Because I am not a hormone-driven 25 year old still looking for the elusive Mr. He-who-will-fullfill-my-every-dream” But still, its an exciting ride to meet a new guy. Get the first kisses over, have nice adult fun, talk about infidelity, love (how do we use that word – also a good talk) In fact, the first many dates we ended up looking at the clock at 2 am – where did the time go? By the way, all this happened in October 2011.
So, I have been busy the last 2½ years seeing the world thru two sets of eyes, my own and his. And being amazed at how differently the world seems, when seen in the double-vision. My new boyfriend (whom I probably never will live with) is quite different than I. But bottom line, we agree on the fundamentals: we want fun, experiences, sex, travel and other people. Where I am quick, he is slow. Where he is easy, I am complicated. Where I am well-educated, he is home-grown. So we are the perfect match, as an 50-some couple.
We just came back to Denmark after the third holiday abroad this year. When we travel, we are totally together, alle the time. This is quite novel for us because he lives in South and I live 350 km away -in North. This last trip we visited my daughter in rural Kenya for 14 days.